'Music'….Couldn’t imagine a life without this 2 syllable …
Without music life would be a mistake…Definitely!
I have one big list…romantic/peppy/folk/jazz types.
'Music'….Couldn’t imagine a life without this 2 syllable …
Without music life would be a mistake…Definitely!
I have one big list…romantic/peppy/folk/jazz types.

Iam very glad to pen the first blog for this year. I never dreamt of me publishing posts until few years back.May be because of the below assumptions / predictions that I had.
1) I may not have time for writing instead I would have time to take care of my home as a home maker.
2) I might have 1000 other important things to attend, 100 bigger problems to handle.
3) My profession pays me money and not ‘My Time’.
4) I will not be in a position to scribe interesting articles.
But right now at this moment I would say, me being a responsible daughter taking care of my home (I definitely know my dad wont be reading this page), Skirted by 100’s of problems but still life moving on, My job pays me ‘My Time’ since this being the Christmas-New year fiesta, My friends say that my blogs are interesting to certain extent.
I think the greatest charm behind our living is the suspense in-store for us.Not exactly knowing - where I will be the same day next year, the slew of cozy living that I may/may not get next year, the people with whom I share my joy and sorrow next year, the friends and colleagues around me next year, my emotional status next year.
Keeping aside all that I felt like writing this because I believe it helps me to unleash my emotions.
There had always been tight spots for the past few days when I had to speak in a different tone, in a different way than normal to some of the people who are related to me.
The phenomenon is as simple as this.
Ok…Now me being the main stakeholder and when I declare my decision to some of my so-called relatives or non-stakeholders , I get various kind of reactions.Some are happy.Some are not-happy,Some get furious,Some are neutral, Some overreact.
From my past experiences this “Relative factor” had always been a not so impressive/important/trustable coefficient for me. But having brought up in a traditional background,Iam liable to announce and get the approval from these folks for some important decisions that I make for myself. So irrespective of my likes and dislikes Iam in a position to listen to their reactions.The negative reactions do trigger me & I give it back instantly making it clear that it was only to inform them and nothing more.They stop reacting online and start the batch reaction (Pls relate this to the batch jobs of mainframes technology…mainframe guys! Hope you will know what exactly are the online and batch systems).Batch reaction will process voluminous comments and will involve lots of “How dares” and ‘How come?” and “How idiotic?”…Not instantaneously but in a daily ,weekly,monthly or yearly cycles.
Rightly said… “If you cannot convince them confuse them”…!I really dunno on what context this saying was uttered…But I like this saying today.But even confusing people around you swallows your energy and time.
People differ, the environment surrounding them differ, thoughts and ideas differ,Priority differ, Expectation differ, the good-will bond that they have on me differ,The depth of knowledge and idea that they have about the future trends and society differ,Degree of exposure to the best way of living differ And so are their REACTIONS…
No one can offend us without our permission isn’t? ...
I sincerely hope and pray that things progress and shape out well soon…
I wish all my friends a very happy and prosperous new year!
A little nitty-gritty for everyone who... is single,engaged,married, has kids, expecting kids, successful, jobless, happy, unhappy or simply looking for the betterment of the inner soul!
A professor stood before his Philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full? They all agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. Again, they agreed it was. The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous - - yes, there's no room for anything else...
The professor then produced two cans of beer from under the table and proceeded to pour the entire contents in! to the jar. The students, surprised and astonished, laughed loudly."Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - - your family, your partner, your health, - - your children, your friends, your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full."The pebbles are the other things that matter like - - your job, - - your house, - - your car.The sand then is everything else - - the small stuff."
"If you put the sand (The small stuff) into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out dancing. Play another 18 holes of golf.There will always be time to go to work. To clean the house. To give a dinner party and fix the disposal."
"Take care of the golf balls first, they are the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked", he said ,"It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, There's always room for a couple of beers !!!!!!!!! "