Wednesday, April 16, 2008

A reason, A season, or A lifetime...

I have been taking efforts to publish atleast two posts every month.Lots of developments and changes on personal front,that takes my time and condenses my blogging spirit since few months.

Even otherwise, if I had managed to scribe one, it would definitely be a learning from metamorphosis of my life.

Shshshshsh!!!!!!!...... Iam getting older :)

In all these irreversible 25 years of living,there had been times of joy,times of surprise,times of nostalgia,times of disappointment,times of pain,times of failure,times of sharing,times of caring,times of listening...

All the above influenced by incidents and circumstances,people around me.

Incidents and circumstanes...sandwiched with good and bad.Learnt to be thankful for the good ones and take the bad ones as EXPERIENCE or CAUTION.Certain incidents happened for a reason that helped me to learn who Iam and to understand my level of competancy in life.Some circumstances had a seasonal touch to it.It either delighted or lamented me for a measurable time-span.There were incidents/circumstances that had a life-long impact,topsy-turvying my life altogether.

People...different people.Faces...Different faces.
People came into my life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.When I figured out which it is,I learnt exactly what to do..

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Exposure to different climates of life,Experience gained out of them,Developing potentials to make our life special are the factors that decides our growth and differentiates us from others.

Making the best out of circumstanes is an art.I sincerely hope to carve and tune this metamorphosis phase of life as much beautiful as possible for me and my loved ones.